RENEE MIZRAHI and JACK MIZRAHI,
Plaintiffs-Respondents,
v.
JAMES CANNON and ROSEANN CANNON,
Defendants-Apellants.
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Argued January 12, 2005 - Decided February 22, 2005
Before Judges Wefing, Fall and Payne.
On appeal from Superior Court of New
Jersey, Chancery Division-Family Part,
Bergen County, No. FD-02-868-04.
William T. Smith argued the cause for
appellants (Hook, Smith & Meyer, attorneys;
Mr. Smith, on the brief).
Richard C. McDonnell argued the cause
for respondents (McDonnell & Whitaker,
attorneys; Mr. McDonnell, on the brief).
The opinion of the court was delivered by
WEFING, P.J.A.D.
Plaintiffs Renee and Jack Mizrahi filed a complaint seeking to establish their rights
under N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1, which affords visitation rights to grandparents. Following a bench trial,
the trial court entered a judgment directing defendants James and Rose Ann
See footnote 1
Cannon
to submit a proposed visitation schedule and engage in reunification therapy. The Cannons
appeal from portions of that judgment. We stayed the judgment and accelerated the
Cannons' appeal. After reviewing the record in light of the contentions advanced on
appeal, we reverse.
The central person to this appeal is Raquel, the seven-year-old granddaughter of the
Mizrahis. Raquel's mother was Genevieve Rodriguez, who died from cervical cancer on September
21, 2001, at the age of thirty-seven. Genevieve lived for approximately one year
with Maurice Mizrahi, the son of Renee and Jack. Raquel was born of
that relationship.
Defendant Rose Ann Cannon is the sister of Genevieve's mother and is thus
Genevieve's maternal aunt and Raquel's great-aunt; defendant James Cannon is married to Rose
Ann. The record is clear that Genevieve had a very close relationship with
her aunt and uncle, which was only strengthened by her illness.
Maurice has a variety of serious emotional and psychological problems. He has abused
drugs and alcohol for years, and he is a cross-dresser. When Raquel was
approximately three months old, Maurice assaulted Genevieve, and Genevieve told him he had
to leave. From that point forward, Genevieve was committed to preventing Maurice from
having any contact with Raquel. He physically attacked Genevieve more than once; on
one of those occasions Genevieve was holding the infant Raquel. Genevieve ultimately found
it necessary to obtain restraining orders against Maurice, barring him from any contact
with her or with Raquel. One such order was entered in June 1998
in Kings County, another in December 1998 in New York County.
Renee Mizrahi admitted that after Genevieve separated from Maurice, she made many attempts
to convince Genevieve to agree to a reconciliation with her son. Genevieve, however,
was adamant that neither she nor Raquel would have anything to do with
Maurice.
In addition to Maurice, two other issues divided the parties. The Mizrahis are
devout Orthodox Jews while Genevieve was a devout Roman Catholic. Genevieve wished Raquel
to be raised as a Catholic. The Cannons were Raquel's godparents when she
was baptized, and Raquel is enrolled in a Catholic elementary school. The Cannons
testified that Genevieve told them that Jack Mizrahi would not enter her apartment
because of the religious objects she displayed. Renee denied that but did say
that before Genevieve became ill, Genevieve would take down such items in advance
of their visiting.
The other divisive item was money. Genevieve did not work after Raquel was
born and struggled to make ends meet. Maurice contributed nothing for his daughter's
support. Renee Mizrahi testified that she and her husband paid many of Genevieve's
expenses, such as rent and utilities, and would contribute money toward necessities, such
as diapers for the baby. Although the trial court did not permit a
full record to be developed on the issue, it is fairly inferable from
what was presented that the Mizrahis were able to make these contributions without
suffering any financial discomfort.
In September 1999, when Raquel was only two years old, Genevieve was diagnosed
with Stage III cervical cancer. The cancer was deemed inoperable, and Genevieve began
a debilitating course of chemotherapy and radiation. Genevieve's mother and the Cannons were
actively involved in assisting Genevieve in caring for Raquel. Initially, when Genevieve was
hospitalized for these treatments or their aftermath, Raquel would stay with Barbara Panza,
Genevieve's mother. When Genevieve would be home from the hospital, her mother would
be at her apartment every day to assist her. In October and November
2000 Genevieve and Raquel spent six weeks with the Cannons when Genevieve had
reached a point she could not care for Raquel, and Barbara Panza could
not care for Genevieve and Raquel by herself. Shortly before Thanksgiving, Genevieve improved
somewhat, and she and Raquel returned to Genevieve's apartment. In February 2001, Genevieve
again began to deteriorate. Genevieve had already decided that she wanted the Cannons
to care for Raquel after her death, and they agreed to do so.
In February 2001, when she was hospitalized on an emergency basis, Genevieve decided
it would be best for Raquel to move in with the Cannons at
that point and not experience further disruption. Raquel has resided with them continuously
since then.
Shortly before Genevieve's death, the Cannons filed an application seeking custody of Raquel.
An order granting them that custody was entered in January 2002.
According to the testimony of Renee Mizrahi, she saw Raquel three times in
2001. The first was in January. She had no contact with Raquel between
January 2001 and September 2001, when she saw Raquel at Genevieve's funeral. There
was no testimony that Raquel showed any reaction to seeing her grandmother that
day.
Barbara Panzer and Renee Mizrahi did speak that day, but with unfortunate results.
As we noted earlier, the Mizrahis had advanced money to help Genevieve and,
on occasion, had asked Genevieve about being repaid. Renee Mizrahi testified that Genevieve
had told her that she was going to receive an inheritance from a
relative and the Mizrahis would be repaid. Renee Mizrahi also testified that Genevieve
had told her on one occasion that she had an ancestor who was
Jewish. At the conclusion of the funeral service, which had taken place at
Genevieve's parish church, Renee Mizrahi approached Barbara Panzer to inquire about this inheritance
and being repaid the money she and her husband had contributed to Genevieve's
care. She also asked if it were true that one of Genevieve's relatives
had been Jewish. Ms. Panzer was upset by these questions.
After that encounter, Renee Mizrahi called the Cannons to inquire about visiting with
Raquel. Three such visits occurred, all in New York City. The first, in
November 2001, was at the Children's Museum, the second, in January 2002, at
the Museum of Natural History, and the third, in the spring or summer
of 2002, at the Central Park Zoo.
According to the Cannons, these visits were unsuccessful. They testified that the Mizrahis
did not engage Raquel during these visits but remained somewhat aloof from her.
They also testified that Raquel did not want to go, and her unwillingness
deepened with each occasion. The Cannons said that Raquel is normally an outgoing,
friendly child but that she was withdrawn and timid during these visits. The
Cannons testified that after the visits, Raquel was fearful and anxious and needed
constant reassurances that the Cannons would continue to care for her and that
she would not have to leave them. Following these visits, Raquel would wake
up with nightmares, which she never did otherwise, even during her mother's illness
and after her death.
Renee Mizrahi and Rose Ann Cannon had several telephone conversations in the months
after Genevieve died. These conversations did nothing to bridge the gulf that separated
these families. During one telephone call, Renee Mizrahi requested Raquel's social security number
and asked about the possibility of the Mizrahis claiming Raquel as a dependent
on their income taxes in light of the funds they had previously advanced
to Genevieve. In another conversation, she again inquired whether Genevieve was the beneficiary
of an estate and thus had funds to repay the money the Mizrahis
had advanced. Renee Mizrahi also inquired whether Raquel had received a card and
check that had been sent in the name of Maurice. Rose Ann remonstrated
that, pursuant to the court orders, Maurice was not to have any contact
with Raquel.
The Cannons decided in light of Raquel's reactions after her three visits with
the Mizrahis that it was not in Raquel's interest to continue these visits.
They were also concerned that the Mizrahis would attempt to facilitate contact between
Raquel and Maurice and would attempt to turn Raquel to Judaism. The Mizrahis
denied any such intent.
In February 2004, the Mizrahis filed their complaint seeking grandparent visitation. On April
3, 2004, the Cannons filed a complaint seeking to adopt Raquel. The Mizrahis
did not contest the adoption. Trial on the Mizrahis' complaint commenced on May
17, 2004. The trial court issued its written opinion on June 18, 2004,
and entered its judgment on July 6, 2004. On August 6, 2004, the
Cannons appealed. On September 30, we granted the Cannons' motion for a stay
of the judgment and to accelerate the appeal. On October 1, 2004, a
judgment of adoption was entered, which provided:
1. Said child shall be adopted by the plaintiffs, James Cannon and Rose Ann
Cannon, husband and wife.
2. The name of the child shall be Raquel Fiona Cannon.
3. From the entry of this Judgment all relationships between this child and biological
parents shall be terminated, as well as all rights, duties and obligations of
any person founded upon such relationship, including the rights of inheritance under the
intestate laws of this State.
4. The entry of this Judgment of Adoption shall establish the same relationship between
the child and the adopting parents as if such child was born to
such adopting parents in lawful wedlock, including the rights of inheritance.
On appeal, the Cannons make two contentions in terms of the question of
visitation. First, they assert that in light of the completed adoption, plaintiffs have
no further right to seek visitation. They also contend that plaintiffs failed to
meet their burden of proof that Raquel would suffer harm if visitation were
not permitted.
The trial of this matter was brief. Apart from the parties, the only
other witness who testified was Genevieve's mother. Both sides presented starkly different versions
of the relationship that existed between Genevieve and the Mizrahis, and the Mizrahis
and Raquel. In its written opinion, the trial court did not resolve all
of the factual disputes but did find the existence of "a warm, close,
loving relationship between the Mizrahis, Raquel and Genevieve" until January 2001. There is
support in the record for that finding and it is binding upon us
on appeal. Cesare v. Cesare,
154 N.J. 394, 411-13 (1998); Rova Farms Resort
v. Investors Ins. Co.,
65 N.J. 474, 483-84 (1974).
[Id. at 173 (citations omitted).]
The Cannons note the similarity that exists between their situation with Raquel and
that which confronted the Court in W.P. One of the reasons the adoptive
parents in W.P. did not want further contact between V and TS's parents
was their fear that TS, whose parental rights had been terminated, represented "a
continuing threat to V's safety and well-being." Id. at 174. The Court recognized
in W.P. that "the grandparents' visitation may provide unsupervised opportunity for TS to
have association with V, even though his parental rights have been severed based
on parental unfitness." Id. at 175. The Cannons have similar fears here and
assert they should not have to rely upon the assurances of the Mizrahis,
no matter how well-intentioned, that Raquel will not be exposed to Maurice.
Additionally, the Court in W.P. noted that "[a]n adoptive family must be given
the right to grow and develop as an autonomous family, and must not
be tied to the very relationship that put the child in the position
of being adopted. Any other ruling would relegate the adoptive parents to 'second-class'
status.'" Ibid. (quoting Mimkon v. Ford,
66 N.J. 426, 441 (1975)). As the
Cannons point out, it was Maurice's inability to function in a parental role
that led to the adoption. They argue that they should not be compelled
to continue to expose Raquel to a relationship that is connected to circumstances
that resulted in her adoption.
The Cannons contend that a similar analysis should control here. According to the
Cannons, to order visitation here would denigrate their autonomy in raising Raquel and
lessen their parental authority. They stress that they have made a judgment, as
Raquel's parents, that the visits with the Mizrahis cause Raquel emotional distress and
anxiety and that the best thing for Raquel at this point is to
forego any contact. Maurice's parental rights have been terminated, they note, and thus
the Mizrahis, whose rights must be deemed derivative through Maurice, have no right
to visit with Raquel over their objection.
The Mizrahis, on the other hand, contend that W.P. is not controlling because
the Court in W.P. carefully restricted its opinion to the instance of nonrelative
adoption; the Cannons, they point out, are related to Raquel. The Mizrahis rely
on Mimkon v. Ford, supra. The child in that case, Jill, was born
on July 2, 1966, by which time her parents had already separated. 66
N.J. at 429. Jill lived with her mother and maternal grandmother, Rose Mimkon,
from the time of her birth until her mother's death in November 1970,
when Jill was four years old. Ibid. Jill then went to live with
her father, who by then had remarried. Ibid. In August 1971, Jill's stepmother
adopted her. Ibid. Disputes arose because Jill's maternal grandmother wanted to continue to
visit Jill, and her father and stepmother objected. Ibid. The Mimkon Court noted
that at common law, a grandparent did not have a right of visitation
in the face of parental objection unless the best interest of the child
called for such visitation. Id. at 430. The Court relied on the then-
newly enacted grandparent visitation statute, N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1, to hold that the plaintiff grandmother
had independent rights that were not affected by Jill's adoption. Id. at 433.
According to the Court, "[t]he statute create[d] an independent action in the grandparent.
In no way does the right asserted by plaintiff depend on continued relations
through the deceased daughter." Id. at 431-32.
Neither Mimkon, involving adoption by a stepmother following the death of the natural
mother, nor W.P., involving adoption by non-relatives, is precisely on point. We are
cognizant of the fact that a determination by us that W.P. controls could
be interpreted as a significant extension of the holding in that case. In
our judgment, it is not necessary for us to reach such an expansive
determination because a close reading of the record in this case satisfies us
that plaintiffs failed to carry their required burden of proof.
[Id. at 115.]
The Court stressed that "a dispute between a fit custodial parent and the
child's grandparent is not a contest between equals. . . . [T]he best
interest standard, which is the tiebreaker between fit parents, is inapplicable when a
fit parent is in a struggle . . . with a third party."
Id. at 116.
In Moriarty, the children had a "very extensive relationship with the grandparents." Id.
at 118. For years, they saw each other every other weekend. Ibid. The
relationship between the children and their grandparents continued through the course of the
litigation. Id. at 120. There was testimony that for the children, their relationship
with their grandparents served as a link with their mother, whose death was
very upsetting for them. Id. at 119. In addition, there was testimony that
to allow the constricted visitation the father wished would work psychological harm on
the children. Id. at 121. The Court concluded that the record established that
"visitation with the grandparents was necessary to avoid harm to the children." Id.
at 122.
We are satisfied that the trial court here, although it recognized the language
in Moriarty requiring grandparents to demonstrate by a preponderance of the evidence that
visitation with a grandchild was necessary to avoid harm to the child, analyzed
the record in terms of its view of Raquel's best interests, rather than
whether Raquel would experience harm if she did not visit with the Mizrahis.
Toward the end of its written opinion, the trial court referred to the
written summation of the Mizrahis' attorney which listed eighteen "possible harms" to Raquel
if the court did not order visitation. These were:
1. Loss of unconditional love, affection and caring;
2. Loss of Jewish heritage and heredity;
3. Probability of guilt and feeling of inadequacy caused by perceived desertion of Father
and Father's parents;
4. Loss of contact and relationship with six cousins, the children of the Paternal
Grandparents' natural daughter;
5. Confusion over the fact that the Maternal Grandmother is very much in the
child's life whereas the Paternal Grandmother and Grandfather are not;
6. Loss of ongoing companionship and the special relationship which often arises between the
child and her Paternal Grandparents;
7. Potential loss of economic assistance;
8. Loss of opportunity to learn from loving Paternal Grandparents;
9. Loss of potentially happy memories of good times, which might have been spent
with the Paternal Grandparents;
10. Loss of opportunity to better understand Jewish traditions, especially those which are relevant
to the Catholic religion and how those traditions relate to the Catholic religion;
11. There will be no one to fill the void in the child's life
to talk to her about her father and the father's side of the
family, since the child's custodians do not discuss those subjects with the child;
12. Loss of potential confidants;
13. Potential loss of sources of heredity and medical history;
14. Potential perquisites, such as gifts, trips, vacations, etc.;
15. Loss of Grant-Parental guidance in child rearing;
16. Loss of benefits which will devolve upon the child from a relationship with
her Paternal Grandparents, which she can not
derive [from] any other relationship;
17. The continuous love and affection of the child's Paternal Grandparents may very well
mitigate the feelings of guilt or rejection, which the child may feel at
the death of her mother and/or due to the separation from her natural
father and ease the painful transition therefrom;
18. Loss of sources of unconditional love and acceptance, which compliment rather than conflict
with the roles of the child's custodians.
The trial court said that in its view, without visitation, Raquel would "experience
many, if not all, of these harms" and that it was in Raquel's
"best interest" to "re-establish visitation."
In our judgment, grandparents seeking visitation under N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1 in the wake of
Moriarty must establish that denying visitation would wreak a particular identifiable harm, specific
to the child, to justify interference with a parent's fundamental due process right
to raise a child free from judicial interference and supervision. Conclusory, generic items,
such as "loss of potentially happy memories," are not a sufficient basis to
warrant such an intrusion into a parent's decision making.
There was no evidence during the trial that Raquel would experience guilt or
inadequacy if visitation did not occur. Nor was there any evidence that she
could experience confusion over the fact that she saw her maternal grandmother, Genevieve's
mother, but not the Mizrahis. There was no evidence that as Raquel grew
older, she would not be able to learn about Jewish heritage and tradition.
There was no evidence that Raquel will experience a void in her life
if she does not visit with the Mizrahis or that, as she got
older, she would experience feelings of rejection. Nor was there any evidence that
Raquel would suffer economically; there was no showing that the Cannons are unable
to meet Raquel's needs.
We have no doubt that it is painful for the Mizrahis not to
see Raquel, and we may empathize with them. The harm to which Moriarty,
supra, refers, however, and which must be proven, is harm to the child,
not harm to the grandparents. 177 N.J. at 118. That the Mizrahis may
have had a warm relationship with Raquel until January 2001, when Raquel was
three years old, does not mean that Raquel will experience harm now if
visitation is not ordered.
In Moriarty, supra, the plaintiff father was acting to cut off an established
relationship that had been in existence, in the case of the older child,
for more than fifteen years. 177 N.J. at 119. Here, the Cannons have
concluded that the Mizrahis' attempt to re-establish a relationship was not successful and
was detrimental to Raquel.
Genevieve trusted the Cannons to raise Raquel. Knowing she would not live to
guide her daughter to adulthood, she selected the individuals she thought best equipped
to do so. She trusted their discretion and their judgment. They have decided
that forced visitation is harmful to Raquel. Plaintiffs failed to prove that harm
would inure to Raquel if she did not visit the Mizrahis at this
time.
This determination, that plaintiffs failed to meet their required burden of proof, makes
moot the Cannons' remaining argument, that the trial court should have granted their
motion for recusal.
Reversed.
Footnote: 1
Parties have spelled Ms. Cannon's name in a variety of ways. We have
used the spelling found in Ms. Cannon's answer, which differs from the caption.
Footnote: 2
We note that it is immaterial, for purposes of our analysis, that
the judgment of adoption was entered subsequent to the trial of this matter.
The trial court prudently analyzed the issue as though the adoption had been
completed and the Cannons were Raquel's legal parents. The trial court specified in
its judgment that it would remain in full force and effect notwithstanding completion
of Raquel's adoption by the Cannons.